Sunday, July 01, 2007

Questionnaire feedback finale: Dealing with anger


Prince of Wales Hotel, Alberta

Happy Canada Day!

Since I have presently have 210 questionnaires in my possession and 190 processed on my SPSS data file, there is no urgent need for me to further ask for completed questionnaires. However, my goal is to not reject one survey that is returned to me, and so I shall keep accepting questionnaires until the day I am ready to email the results to my advisor at Wales. Thank you!

The process of emailing out questionnaires over the internet has been interesting. I learned a little about the Christian landscape in various parts of the world and emailed out over 1000 questionnaires. I very much appreciate the persons that returned questionnaires by email, and regular mail. I also somewhat appreciate those that politely declined to assist in an email response or just deleted my email.

I have discussed in previous articles, for the sake of clarification, some of the negative feedback I received from persons of the religious left and right, and some accusations made against me. From a couple of sources, it was suggested that there may be a hidden agenda with this project, as in somehow behind the problem of evil questions there is another topic I wish to deal with, for example, to discuss women in ministry. It has been stated that I might wish to catch people blind. Based on the denominations, these people were likely of the religious left and were implying that I had an agenda against feminism, which I do not with this project. I responded to these accusations in a friendly email, but received no reply.

From a leader from an independent fundamentalist church that is likely of the religious right, there was the suggestion that my research was a feminist propaganda tool. I corrected this person in a friendly email, but received no further reply. There is no anti-feminist or feminist agenda with my questionnaire or dissertation. My University department is not Reformed. It is secular and has required me to add some women related questions, as they originally wanted me to review a feminist theodicy. I informed them that as far as I could tell there was no such thing. I am required to meet certain academic standards, including presenting viewpoints that are not from my particular theological tradition.

I was not furious with these accusations, but I was angry for a few hours each time. After the second event, I also found these accusations humourous as they contradicted each other! But, these incidents also made me think about the concept of anger, in regard to the problem of evil. Millard J. Erickson points out that God’s reaction to sin in anger is not primarily emotional, as his temper is not out of control. Erickson (1994: 605). Erickson states that God in his anger should be described as being disappointed with sin. Erickson (1994: 605). I am by no means able to handle anger in a way equal to God, but I was angry with these accusations and accusers, not in a furious manner, but was disappointed that men that claim to be Christian pastors did not give me the benefit of the doubt in regard to my motives in producing this PhD problem of evil questionnaire and emailing it out world-wide. I realized that even though I was not emailing them for commercial gain I may have been viewed as an irritant and/or it may be that since I am not in within their perhaps extreme religious views of the left and right respectively, that I was deemed as an outsider and a threat.

From the New American Standard Bible:

Proverbs 14:17 explains that a quick-tempered man acts foolishly.

Ephesians 4:26-27 notes that a person will be angry, but is told not to sin, as sinful anger gives the devil opportunity.

I have often looked at human sin metaphorically as a fire and Satan and demons as beings that pour gas on that fire. This all occurs within the sovereign will and purposes of God. All that occurs within creation is willed and allowed by the infinite, and omnipotent God, but I would rather follow God’s will by being obedient as opposed to being disobedient, and so anger is something that should be dealt with in prayer quickly. I was angered by these accusations and accusers, and soon asked God to help me to forgive these accusers and as well understood in the situation the opportunity to produce humourous blog material and to clear up misconceptions which some would have concerning my project, and perhaps me personally. R. K. Harrison describes God’s Biblical anger as a deliberate reaction to all that violates his holy nature. Harrison (1996: 48). It is explained that human anger can be righteous, but can also be selfish, or a combination of both and if human anger is not righteous alone, it may face the condemnation of God. Harrison (1996: 48). Righteous anger against false accusations and accusers is therefore something that should be overcome quickly through the power of prayer and the leading of God.

ERICKSON, MILLARD (1994) Christian Theology, Grand Rapids, Baker Book House.

HARRISON, R.K. (1996) ‘Anger’, in Walter A. Elwell (ed.), Evangelical Dictionary of Theology, Grand Rapids, Baker Books.

9 comments:

  1. I can understand your feelings of disappointment and even short periods of anger, but thankfully, with God's help, you are able to get over those periods quickly. You state that you have responded to the comments in a nice way and that is good, and it would be nice if your responses would have been acknowledged. That, of course, is up to each individual in perhaps them needing to then justify their being critical of your writings. We all have our failings and can overcome them by prayer and the help of our Heavenly Father. How fortunate we are!

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  2. Thanks, Mom.

    Yes, it does me no good to stay angry. I might as well just get on with my project!

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  3. I appreciate your thoughts on anger as it is a topic I once struggled with a great deal.

    I love your methaphor of Satan pouring gas on a fire - that's so true! The fire that was my anger was only encouraged by well-intentioned co-workers who kept telling me I should retaliate against the subject of my anger.

    Although I'm glad to say that I never retaliated I did allow my anger to fester - and there was my sin.

    I think what made my anger so hard to overcome was because, much as in your case, I was personally attacked. A finger wrongly pointed in your face is a difficult thing to turn the other cheek to.

    I've always been amazed at the abscence of anger at the cross. If there was anyone who deserved to be angry I think it was Jesus on the cross. Only a week earlier he was praised as he entered Jerusalem. Suddenly everyone, including his closest friends, deserted him and left him to die.

    There's no scriptural evidence that Jesus was angry while on the cross. But I like to think that if he was, his love for all was more than enough to put out that fire.

    Continue on in your good work, Russ!

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  4. Cheers, Wade.

    I stated:

    I have often looked at human sin metaphorically as a fire and Satan and demons as beings that pour gas on that fire.

    You stated:

    I love your metaphor of Satan pouring gas on a fire - that's so true!

    This means that although demonic beings do at times have influence in evil acts, which can arise from human anger, human beings are still morally responsible. Wade, you rightly pointed out that Jesus likely handled his brutal death without anger. Christ completed the atoning work and resurrection, and was the ultimate human example of how to deal with anger.

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  5. Thank you for posting Millard J. Erickson's ideas on anger: "God’s reaction to sin in anger is not primarily emotional, as his temper is not out of control." "God in his anger should be described as being disappointed with sin." This is helpful personally to think of appropriate anger in terms of an attitude (disappointment, disapproval) versus an emotion.

    How interesting that you received emails accusing you of having a pro-feminist AND accusing you of having an anti-feminist agenda. I suppose people with an agenda think that way. (No implied connection, but I've also noticed that dishonest people are not very trusting.)

    It's also interesting that people would take the time to express their "concern," yet not respond to your explanation. I believe there are some people who take pleasure in being angry just as there are those who prefer to be miserable.

    Happy (belated) Canada Day!
    Tom

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  6. The reply is much appreciated, Tom. Some persons on the extreme left and right within cultural Christianity at times are not interested in dialogue, but desire to get on a soap box and preach, and to avoid and disrespect those not within their camp.

    Happy July 4th!

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  7. Boy, that photo does make me want to go on vacation right there - how beautiful!

    Its an important topic that you are writing about... Fortunately I am very "slow" in getting angry. I rather get frustrated or hurt. And my workplace is the perfect place for learning how to control anger.

    Have a great week,
    Helen

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  8. Hey Russ good to hear that your work is moving forward. Interesting the kind of responses you are getting but they should be no surprise. Christ's church seems to always be stretched between polarities. It shows the breadth of ways in which people read their own ideas into what has been written and reminds me of the care we need to take in communicating that what we mean is as clear and cogent as we can make it. Looking forward to the finished product Russ.
    Steve

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  9. Thanks, Helen.

    I agree with your comments. I found the photo this weekend on Google images and it is one of my very best desktop pictures, in my opinion. I can understand how one can get frustrated and hurt in the work place, but not getting angry can make working easier.:) I have avoided problems with people previously by controlling anger. Please have a good week as well.

    Cheers, Steve.

    I am glad you liked my encouraging comments to you personally on Sunday. You are a great support at church as a Pastor, and with your Doctorate, I appreciate you reading over my dissertation work for me. It is good to have a person local to receive feedback from. I agree that one needs to be careful in what is written and I ask the Lord to guide me with that in my dissertation and blog writing. I pray the Lord shall guide your ministry greatly.

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